Take a moment and think about it. This might not be one of the most pleasurable discussions to have with self but don't you think it's equally one worth having? So, Who are you? Maybe you probably do know already and that is a good thing mate. You might think you know, but maybe you don't. I think I belong to this category hence the need to actually pen this down. Sometimes this question will prove way harder than we thought, but for you to get to a point of being self aware then probably this is a path one must tread on. What is it that you genuinely love? What is it that you genuinely want for yourself? What is that picture in your head about your ideal self? What do you find valuable or pleasurable? Do you negotiate fairly for yourself?...or do you downplay yourself just because you feel it's the moral thing to do, or probably you think looking out for yourself is such a selfish to do. Or you just sit there and fit in to other people's definitions of what is ...
All things are dificult before they become easy!